Tuesday, March 21, 2006

Pregnancy Dilemma- What if my husband is away when I give birth?


This is another side of the story. Yep I suffered from Morning sickness, to indescribable stretch marks ,then came the stretching of my memory,and now the worry thinking of my husband being away when I deliver.

Giving birth while a husband is far away is not a new story for my genetics. My mother gave birth while my Father is working in the Middle East. My sister in law gave birth with the same story like my Mom.

I can see the positive side of this event,first and foremost whenever my Husband is around, I get to be so "maarte" as in! I rely to him everything and get mushy and emotional every second of the day. I trust him so much, as he really takes good care of my baby and me.
Without him by my side, I need to express the Zam in me, strong, over confident, tactless, hahaha..., which somewhere in the middle I know will have positive effects while giving birth.
Second good effect of this is the fact that my husband's vacation is only 35 days. If I give birth before he arrives then he will have a longer time to spend with our baby! [Yep, we have to go back to Dubai and leave our baby for sometime with my husband's Mother. It has to do with the visa and the accommodation and my Husband's work, but don't worry about this as I am not. My baby will be in good hands. We are setting the goal of my Baby's migration before the end of December,2006,anyway. ]
Back to my dilemma, I already sited two positive effects, let me now think about the negative. Errr...aside from the fact that its really sad to be alone now and during the delivery,plus the thought that my husband will miss this first of the first event in our life,I can't think of anything else. Maybe there isnt's anything I should worry about. Maybe? Let me just cross the bridge when I get there.
And by the way thanks to so many internet shop nowadays in the streets, I get to spend my free time in blogging while waiting for my OGTT, next blood sugar test.It's 4 blood sugar test in the span of 3 hrs, with 100 Mg dose of apparently healthy glucose. The series of test is the confirmation that I no longer have diabetus mellitus, in short, diabetis. LOL

Tuesday, February 21, 2006

Palace in the city


Most of you must have seen this as a forwarded mail by someone. But its different from us emirateans (isn’t that nice to say? It means expats in United Arab Emirates, lol) , as some of us got the chance to see it once in a blue moon or some of us sees it everyday. Anyway let me share the splendor of one the Emirates architecture. I grow up wondering how a modern castle/palace looks inside, and the dream to relieve it, is here. The following pictures are taken from the home of Sheikh Zayed bin Sultan Al Nahyan, the former President of the United Arab Emirates and ruler of Abu-Dhabi.














Wednesday, February 15, 2006

Happy Valentines Day!!!


If it happens to you, will you ever forget this.....

One day I met a sweet gentleman and fell in love.
When it became apparent that we would marry, I made the supreme sacrifice and gave up eating beans forever.

Some months later, on my birthday, my car broke down on the way home from work. Since I lived in the countryside I called my husband and told him that I would be late because I had to walk home. On my way, I passed by a small diner and the odour of baked beans was more than I could stand. With miles to walk, I figured that I would walk off any ill effects by the time I reached home, so I stopped at the diner and before I knew it, I had consumed three large orders of baked beans.

All the way home, I made sure that I released all the gas. It sounded like an armalite firing, bratatatat. Then I was relieved of all the gas in my stomach.

Upon my arrival, my husband seemed excited to see me and exclaimed delightedly: "Darling I have a surprise for dinner tonight." He then blindfolded me and led me to my chair at the dinner table. I took a seat and just as he was about to remove my blindfold, the telephone rang. He made me promise not to touch the blindfold until he returned and went to answer the call. The baked beans I had consumed were still affecting me and the pressure was becoming most unbearable, so while my husband was out of the room I seized the opportunity, shifted my weight to one leg and let one go. It was not only loud, but it smelled like a fertilizer truck running over a skunk in front of a pulpwood mill. I took my napkin from my lap and fanned the air around me vigorously. Then, shifting to the other cheek, I ripped off three more. The stink was worse than a rotten cabbage. Keeping my ears carefully tuned to the conversation in the other room, I went on like this for another few minutes. The pleasure was indescribable. When eventually the telephone farewells signaled the end of my freedom, I quickly fanned the air a few more times with my napkin, placed it on my lap and folded my hands back on it feeling very relieved and pleased with myself.

My face must have been the picture of innocence when my husband returned, apologizing for taking so long. He asked me if I had peeked through the blindfold, and I assured him I had not. At this point, he removed the blindfold, and twelve dinner guests seated around the table chorused: "Happy Birthday!"

Monday, February 06, 2006

Gestational diabetes mellitus --- huwaaat?





Gestational diabetes mellitus (GDM) is a type of diabetes that arises during pregnancy (usually during the second or third trimester).In some women, GDM occurs because the body cannot produce enough insulin to meet the extra needs of pregnancy.




Often, blood glucose levels can be controlled by diet. You will be given a diet to follow that is low in simple carbohydrates. If your blood glucose cannot be controlled by diet, you will have to take insulin injections. Between ten and 30 per cent of women with GDM take insulin.

Thank you google for the info above.

It was detected in my blood test two weeks ago, my sugar count was way over the limit. Thus it was easy for my doctor to say, Im diabetic.

Now I can’t even smile with just the thought of it. I’m scared. Nope, not like the stretch mark scary, this one is for real. Its serious. If I can’t find a way to make my sugar level sink low, my baby would grow so big, it would both put us in danger.

So let me count thy ways how I should live my life for the next two months…

= Zero Sugar!!!
= Skimmed milk only (ano daw?)
= Less intake of white rice (kaya ko to!)
= Less intake of white bread (lalo naman to, nde naman ako mahilig sa bread!)
= Walking for sometime w/o restraining myself (pano yun?)
= No banana (errr)
= No grapes (waaaaaaaaaaa)
= More vegetable salad, without the dressing (anu lasa nun?)
= No chocolates (oh dear LORD)
= No coffee (fine)
= No tea (not a problem)
= Stay away from fast food restaurants (pasara nyo KFC!)
= No soft drink (since nabuntis naman ako pinagbawal na to)
= Less intake of meat , if cant resist portion should only be like the size of your palm (pwedeng yung 2 palm ko? cge na please maliit lang kasi kamay ko e...at this point gusto na akong batukan ng asawa ko)

As I write it down I feel sadder than ever. Yep, si zam sad na takot pa...haaay

Thursday, January 26, 2006

The soon to be Mom…..


Pregnancy, yep its serious business. Some experience hardships, some experience total discomfort, some lucky women experience nothing at all, except for the big tummy! Wish I’m one of those lucky women.

Anyway I’m doing this post with all my sentiments and may I be able to share the “had that” and the “still have that” to my friends, specially to you Jha, as you wouldn’t stop scaring me!

Unexpected traumatic chills…

Ø First Trimester Morning Sickness – Liar! It doesn’t happen in the morning only, it strikes anytime of the day! Mine usually happens after lunch. Dizziness, nausea, name it and be used to it as it will be a part of your daily habit.

Ø Bigger and Bigger – Every part of me is just oozing to be bigger! Its like my body parts are just waiting to do this all my life. Maybe I was never meant to be medium built at all as I am now…errr fat, in the real sense of the word.

Ø Nose bleeding – Before I used to claim I’m afraid of blood, not anymore! Put a tissue anytime inside my nose, and you can get my blood sample. First time I noticed that my nose would bleed every time I stuck something inside (cotton buds that is) ,as every normal person would react, I panic! Went to the doctor and showed her. But just like the other surprises to me, this is normal. My bones and joints and everything else inside is now very sensitive. So just be careful in cleaning your nose –that’s the doctor’s advice, hehe.


Ø Mood Swings - Im not gonna elaborate about this as even though its hard to admit, Im kinda moody already even when I wasnt pregnant yet.

Ø Stretch marks – Spare me dear GOD! I can admit Im not the most beautiful person on earth but I don’t feel as the ugliest one either. First time I felt the itchiness, I scratched it a bit! As in just a bit, then I showed it to my ever hubby, and he said stop scratching it must be the stretch marks. Seeing the horrible look in my face, he said don’t worry its not that much. Your skin is red only. I believed him and shut up for that time. The next morning, with the nice sunshine over our little room, I took the mirror from the wall and decided to have a glimpse on my ever itchy tummy! And much to my horrific surprise, there it was, the little lighting scratches all over my lower tummy! Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa…I really cried my hearts out! Not the marks, not the marks I kept on saying. My mind kept on imagining the scary design on my tummy and somehow a voice in my head is saying you will never be flawless again! My hubby gave me a tight hug while saying that’s normal, the baby is growing. It will disappear later on or after the delivery. I don’t know why, but that time his words wasn’t enough to comfort me, but maybe the hug did it. After an hour I stopped blaming and cursing him with the promise that he will have to pay for an operation that will remove all the marks.

I will rest my case for now, but as soon as remember or feel anything more, I will be glad to share it to you pals!

Sunday, January 15, 2006

Things that made me happy 2002 ?!?


I wrote the things below 4 years ago, I was able to retrieve it from my yahoo mail and it just made my day. It actually made me smile, I can see how things were so simple and how I was so naive back then. Anyway I want to post it, my next post would be the present, and then the future? wahaha



mababaw lang pro these are the things that makes me feel good,i want to read this things after 10 years,macompare man lang,hehe.as for you guys who will read it,kanya kanyang trip ok?

--pag cute ako pagtingin ko sa salamin
--eating hashbrown as breakfast on weekends
--ung spicy
chicken combo ng wendys
--ung spi
cy chicken ng kfc
--drinking vanilla coke,sometimes rootbeer crave
--gicing ng tanghali pag pwede,heaven!
--receiving
email from my friends
--tawag ni daddy
--winning a stuff toy sa ufo catcher,kahit pa naubos na pera ko sa kakalaro!
--drinking gin tonic while singing sa karaoke
--drinking smurnoff while dancing sa
sky haha
--drinking red horse while playing billiards
--everytime i eat my own luto tapos ang sarappppp
--pag naamoy ko ung Jasmin rice ko na naluluto,ambango bango
--pag bumibili me ng kahit ano,without actually planning it
--uuwi ng maaga galing sa work,pambihira kasi sa akin
--pag madami tao sa bahay ko?
--pag nde nila ko makatok kasi wala na ko doorbell haha
--pag syento sa exam!
--pag may nagagawa me favor for anyone
--pag gigimik ako tapos may manlilibre sa akin
--pag nakikita ko c marvyn(katabi ko sya habang gnagawa ko to ok?)
--pag yng mga tinutukso ko nagkakatuluyan! wahhaha (marvin and anna)
--pag may girls nyt out.bihira kasi e
--pag sweldo na syempre at pag may naiipon
--pagnakakapag simba
--pag holiday
--pag matagal na me nasa loob ng room ko
--ung thought na uuwi na c daddy for good!
--pag nangangarap me ng kung ano ano
--pag nakakatakas d2 sa work!
--pag natapos ang isang design...whew
--pag naglalakad ng walang hinahabol na oras

Monday, January 02, 2006

He/She picks....

She picks...Samsung SGH-E800


SLIDE AND BE SASSY

Specs
Dual-band (900/1800MHz)
Built-in VGA (640 x 480) Camera with Flash
Multimedia Messaging (MMS)
JAVA Application Capability WAP 2.0 (WSP Stack)
64 Polyphonic Ringtones
65,536
Color TFT LCD (128 x 160)
Speakerphone Voice Clarity
Photo Caller
ID Dimension: 87 x 43 x 23.5mm

Weight: 86g


He picks... Nokia 6260

WORK AND PLAY

Specs

Active TFT rotating display display (65,536 colours, 176 x 208 pixels)
Push to Talk (PTT)
Mobile email and VPN client
HTML browser
Quickword and Quickpoint for viewing documents
Bluetooth™ wireless technology
Additional connectivity: Infrared, Pop-Port™ connector, Nokia Connectivity Adapter cable (USB)
Local synchronization of contacts, calendar, to-do items, and notes to a compatible PC using PC Suite
Downloadable Java™ and Symbian applications
Voice Features: voice dialing, voice commands, voice recorder
Integrated handsfree speaker
Integrated digital VGA camera (640 x 480 pixels, digital zoom)
Video
recording and playback
FM radio and MP3 player
Polyphonic ringtones & True Tones
Five-way scrolling navigation
Text messaging with concatenated SMS: send and receive messages containing up to 459 characters
Multimedia Messaging Service (MMS) for receiving, editing and sending messages with text, audio files, voice clips,
video clips and images
Predictive text input
Memory: 6 Mbytes
Includes a 32 Mbyte MMC memory card, preloaded with a number of applications you can try for free
GPRS class 6
Data transfer up to 43.2 kbps
Triband
Size: 102 x 49 x 23 mm
Weight: 130g
Battery standby: up to 6 days Talktime: 2 - 4 hours

Thursday, December 29, 2005

Desperate Housewives, The review

Im not one of them (hehe) Physically like and in shallah (hopefully) emotionally as well. One time my best friend and I were chatting, I asked her “do you watch that funny series of desperate housewives?” Instead of giving a yes or a no she replied with a crack saying “ First you fell in love with Sex and The City, now your into Desperate Housewives, whats next ? Fucking Lola?” And we both laugh our hearts out.

I love watching series, not only the sex,comedy,drama type. I was also hooked for CSI, Friends, Smallville, The Simpson, Mara Clara( I can hear Amy,my bestfriend saying..ewww),and other series I might have forgotten already. But what the heck, maybe I just want something to break the ice. Maybe we all do.


Let me describe the main characters from the birds eye:

Mary Alice – I think she’s nuts!? So desperate for a child of her own, ending up
killing someone to have it then gets blackmailed how many years later and kills herself? If that was me, I have already killed someone before then … I can do it again. Find out who is crawling behind my back and give him what’s just right. Exactly the way his husband did. Tsk tsk tsk

Susan – Love her looks, the way she dress with just jeans and tops. I like the way she is not so bitchy but sad to say her idiotic side and her clumsiness just turns me off! I cant imagine the way she is living her life, divorced Carl, the father of her child. Sssssstill live in the same area, and watch while Carl bangs the hot girl in the neighborhood. Ohh please, girls are not this stupid. Even if she is already in love with someone else, I still find that unbelievable. Or is it because I was raise in somehow a more conservative region compared to the that of western countries? Is this for real?

Bree - She portrays the perfect one…(from who’s eyes again may I ask?)
You know what is my husband’s reaction when she first saw her? "Scary... As if she will kill me if I did something wrong..." I didn’t realize how bad it really affected her family. The way she does things you know what I mean? In terms of her talent, I like her. Gardening and cooking cuisines, gleaming set of China’s . But that’s all, nothing more.

Gabrielle- Ahh the sexy and the naughty girl among the four. Her adultery is understandable. Not that I am saying she is right but damn the way that husband of her, Carlos treated her in the beginning.

Its justified. I cant forget one line when they were arguing about attending a dinner party, Gabbi says something that goes “ every time I’m around that man, he wants to grab my a$$”, then Carlos replied “I made 200,000 $ business with him this year, if he wants to grab you’re a$$, let him!” Now do I need to say more what an a@@h*€^ he is?

Lynette - This one is my hero. Wink wink wink…Mother of 4 consecutive very active children and now finds a way to support her family. Strong minded, and somehow dominating. Tom his husband is not perfect and still quite childish but its not that bad, so far. Lynette brings balance to the show’s all gloomy marriages and all. Her family is only one, but shines among all. Her kids might be a pain, but at the end of the day, who is happy anyway?

Thats the main casts of the series,It is only in its season two so for the others who havent taken advantage of this breakaway for an hour or so from our very busy life...try it,then judge it yourself !






Wednesday, December 28, 2005

The Never ending Visit visa


Kabayan! That is the usual tawagan of the Filipinos who bump to each other here in Dubai. You need not to know the name of the other Filipinos, just say Kabayan and for sure that Filipino will turn his head. When I first arrived in Dubai, I find it a bit corny. Ang jollogs naman,sana may iba na pwede pang itawag. But after some time, I realized its not that bad. It is actually relieving in some scenarios where you find yourself sorrounded by other nationalities which will make your nose bleed to death…oops don’t get me started, where is my hanky anyway? So let me go on with the topic that I know for sure would help some of my Kababayan who is planning to venture in the city that cares, Dubai….(By the way this is purposely made for my friends who are planning to come here...)

Authenticated Documents


In order to be provided with an employment visa in UAE( lets say you found a nice paying job), the employer will be required to submit your Authenticated Diploma and Transcript of Records (TOR) by UAE goverment. How to process your authenticated documents? Follow these steps:
  • CHED (For college level ) / Department of Education (For Highschool level) - 1 - 2 Weeks for processing, Cost depends upon your school
  • Malacanang - 150 , 1 day release only
  • DFA - 250, 3 days release
  • DHL for UAE Embassy Authentication - 3 weeks
It is advisable to complete the documents first before venturing in UAE to avoid further hassle. If in case the paper is already in UAE Embassy, it would be ok to come here and start searching for work and just ask your relatives to send it to you once documents are sent to your specified address.

Visa

How can I apply for a visit visa and how much would it cost ?

Find yourself a friend or someone you can trust who can help you buy a visa with ticket in Dubai. The cost will depend upon who is your connection in getting it. Of course it is better to find someone who is already in Dubai as chances are they would give you better prices. Beware of illegal recruiters,illegal agencies, and other kind of monkeys na paligid ligid! Just please bear in mind, it shouldn’t be more than 100,000 bucks. Until now it is only valid for 2 months.

What are the requirements in applying for a visit visa?

Passport copy is the only requirement from you for a visa and of course the passport copy and visa page copy of the person sponsoring you. If you approach an agency, more or less they wouldn’t give you any supporting papers that our Immigration Department requires.

How long would it take before it gets approved?

It depends upon the day the application has been submitted. Saturday is the first working day of the Government here, if your papers are in by Saturday,by Sunday afternoon the visa will come out and another day or two to send it to the Philippines. So what the heck, give it a 5 working day allowance, or a week to be exact. Do not rush the person you ask to apply for it, specially if it is just your friend and your asking the favor! The person has a life too you know? But if it is an agency, it would be advisable to give them a call every hour after paying. Haha





After receiving my visa, what else should I prepare?

You have to make sure you prepare the following:

1. Accomodation –
San ka titira? May visa ka nga, wala ka palang bahay! Hahaha! Kidding aside, if you ask a friend to apply for the visa, ask her also for help in finding one. If you are single and you will be going here alone, the advisable accom is a Bed Space, which would cost 500 -600 Dhs (Conversion rate: 1 Dhs app = 15 Php) without water and electricity. The payment scheme here is usually 1 Month Advance and Elec and Water Deposit , say 700 Dhs , say 10,500 Php. Other landlords acccept with only 1 month advance, some not everyone! As adviced by one of my friend who went here this should be outside of your allocated budget for a month! Writing about budget…errr next number please…. Oops before I forget to those who are buying the visa from an agency, be careful they might also ask you to pay for an accomodation that they promised with this and that. Be wise, the receipt you have from the Philippines is not valid in Dubai, so in case the accomodation isnt real, you cant get hold of the agency anymore!



2. Budget :


a. Food –
I say 500 Dhs app = 7,500 Php is enough for 1 normal person who eats 3 meals a day and about 2 snacks. Fast food chains and coffe shops such as Starbucks are out of this budget please!

b. Accomodation – As discussed above, 700 Dhs = 10,500 Php for a bed space per month.


c. Transportation- Mind you there is a 100 Dhs app = 1,500 Php card ride all you can for a month in Dubai Transport, the public transport system here. This is practical put it in your list!


d. Sim Card is 165 Dhs app = 2,500 Php

e. Mobile Load for a month maybe 100 Dhs = 1,500 Php, this depends on your usage.

f. Etc- Of course you have to buy some things you cant bring from the Philippines! They only allow 25 Kgs baggage limit and 10 Kgs Hand Carry,is it right Cathay Pacific?


If its not too much to ask, please compute for yourself, I already gave the approximate amount. You know how often you used your mobile credit so the cost would depend on yourself. Not to mention the food, you don’t want to be hungry in Dubai! Don’t forget the things you need to buy from here.

3. CV , This is if your planning to come over here to find a nice job. Impressive CV is all you need. Yep if your well experienced and above 20, you shouldn’t find a problem in finding a nice paying job. Print 100 copies CV with your smartest picture in it! Mas mura sa atin magprint,wag ng matigas ang ulo! Just leave some space for your address here and the mobile number. Do not put your mobile number from the Philippines even if its roaming. No employer would call if your mobile number is not in Dubai. And remember you will be coming in using Visit visa, please keep your CV’s in your baggage and not in your hand carry, why? See next number

4. Immigration Speech – I really don’t get it but our Immigration Department in the Philippines is giving the Filipino’s who are leaving the country using Visit visa a hard time. They are a pain in the @*&** Make sure you prepare yourself

for the Q & A such as

i. Why are you going in Dubai?
ii. Where are you going to stay?
iii. When are you coming back?
iv. Who is sponsoring you?
v. What is your relationship?
vi. You are going to find a job isnt it? Isnt it?

Grrrrrrrrrrrrr….What the f^%^ should they care? As long as the visa is valid and your supporting papers are presented (this one is really not required,etching lang pero hinihingi ng mga $#@%$#) , they don’t have the right to stop you from leaving! Just to be sure, practice all the answers to the above, and expect the unexpected ! Look smart, taas ang isang kilay kung babae ka, and speak in English if your fluent. Let me quote one of my friend’s line : “ Ang unang matakot, talo. “

Im kinda tired in typing, I think I will rest for now. If there is anything I didnt mention that you think I should, please let me know.

Thursday, December 22, 2005

My favorite time of the year...


I just love the air of Christmas joy. Last night was the 7th simbang gabi I attended in St. Mary's Church, until now I can hear the line of some songs I heard from the choir,

"And you wish you could give more Than just presents from a store..."

That line says it all for me. And I would like to take this opportunity to say the following out loud:

PAPA GOD, Thank you for giving us the greatest gift of all...

JESUS HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Thank you for coming into our lives!

MAMA MARY, Thank you for striving hard for JESUS in that manger. I can imagine how it felt. And when its my time to bring this baby out in this world,be with me, I beg you.

PAPA JOSEPH, Thanks for standing by and taking good care of your family.

and for the not so famous to others but are the maincasts in my life:

Daddy...I miss you so much! Merry Christmas! Stay strong! Be healthy! I look forward to the day we get together ,just relax and enjoy life.

Mommy...Im sorry I didnt treat you better this year, your a tough woman withstanding all of the pain me and my brother is giving you.

Zyd...Though I still feel the blood rising in my head everytime I think of you, your still my one and only brother. Think better things to do with your life. Hope never dies. You still have something bright ahead of you, if you can only see it.

Sweetheart...We have a long way to go! Take care of yourself and of us.

And to all of my friends that I relied before and I still rely most of the time, thank you! I wont be Zam if you wont be you! So dont dare change and forget me...yeah?

To finish my solemn drama for 2005 Christmas ,let me say

MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL !!!


















Wednesday, December 21, 2005

Reality creeps in...


This time of the year, I somehow appreciate being in Dubai. Yes I enjoyed the glorious openness of this place for the past 9 months but never have I realized really the magnitude of the freedom we enjoy here. Imagine somewhere in the Middle East, I am attending Simbang gabi! Unbelievable. I remember Daddy's frustrating stories as he celebrates Christmas every year in the place where even Bible,rosary and anything with religous picture in it is not allowed. Yep, that sucks! As if feeling home sick for your family is not enough. Anyway here is the picture of the biggest Christmas tree in St. Mary's Church, which I have to emphasize,the only Church in Dubai....

Tuesday, December 20, 2005

Changing Everybody's Life

Isn't it amazing? Only 5 months old inside my womb but changing and touching our life already?

The man they call "John"

First time mo???



I can still remember that line from a nice commercial (maybe 3-4 years back?) Hehe who knows? Anyway...there are so many "first time" experience I had for 2005 and still enjoying lately..Let me count thy blessings...


  • Made in the city that cares, Dubai (I just love the publicity that it's 100% crime free...err they should do it 90% to be realistic)
  • Married the guy who turned out to be... the IDEAL man!
  • My baby is now 5 months old...4 months to go! We are so excited...
  • Simbang gabi in St. Mary's Dubai, the one and only Catholic church in Dubai.

and then the list will go on and on and on....